Nelly is under fire after a viral moment from his and Ashanti’s new reality series left fans shocked and disappointed. In the clip, Nelly openly admits that he’s doing little to nothing to help care for their newborn son, Kareem, prompting intense criticism over his dismissive approach to fatherhood.
“I Got Nothing for Him Until He Can Walk and Talk”
In the now widely circulated scene, Nelly appears indifferent to his parenting duties, saying:
“I got nothing for him until he can walk and talk.”
He goes on to ask Ashanti, seemingly bewildered:
“Do people really wake up at night when babies cry?”
The conversation turns more tense when Nelly bluntly states that he has no plans to change diapers, leaving Ashanti visibly frustrated as she tries to stay composed. The scene sparked an immediate reaction online, with many viewers disturbed by what they saw as an emotionally detached and unsupportive attitude.
Social Media Erupts
Fans and critics quickly took to social media, expressing outrage at what they called Nelly’s lack of accountability as a father and partner. The clip has gone viral across platforms, with the hashtag #NellyIsOverParty trending and thousands weighing in.
Common reactions included:
- “Ashanti is doing everything while Nelly sits back like it’s not his kid too.”
- “It’s embarrassing to see a grown man proudly admit he’s not helping.”
- “How can you bring a child into the world and not show up for them?”
Many pointed out that while Ashanti remained composed, her body language and expressions made it clear that she was overwhelmed and disappointed.
Bigger Conversations About Fatherhood
The scene has sparked a broader discussion about gender roles in parenting and the emotional labor that often falls disproportionately on women. Critics argue that Nelly’s comments reflect a deeper societal problem where fathers are praised for doing the bare minimum, while mothers are expected to carry the load — physically, emotionally, and mentally.
One viewer wrote:
“This is what postpartum neglect looks like. He’s not just refusing to help, he’s acting like it’s normal.”
Experts have weighed in as well, noting that this type of dynamic can have serious consequences on relationships, maternal health, and child development.
Silence from Nelly and Ashanti
So far, neither Nelly nor Ashanti has commented publicly on the backlash. Producers of the show have also remained quiet, leaving fans wondering if Nelly will address the controversy or let the footage speak for itself.
Some are hoping for accountability and growth from the rapper. Others feel the damage has already been done.
What was meant to be a glimpse into the couple’s new chapter has instead sparked widespread outrage and concern. While the reality series may continue, the conversation about Nelly’s parenting attitude is far from over.
One thing is certain: the internet isn’t impressed — and Ashanti deserves support, not silence.