Wilmington, N.C. – The Wilmington community is mourning the heartbreaking and unexpected loss of Jamie Stokley, the beloved founder and CEO of Helping Hands of the Cape Fear, a nonprofit organization dedicated to helping unsheltered individuals recover from illness with dignity and care. The organization confirmed her passing on Wednesday, October 29, 2025, sharing that Jamie died at just 40 years old.
Jamie Stokley was widely admired for her compassion, dedication, and tireless efforts to improve the lives of the most vulnerable members of the community. Through her leadership at Helping Hands of the Cape Fear, she transformed the organization into a beacon of hope for those struggling with homelessness and illness, offering critical services and unwavering support to those in need.
Her work extended far beyond administrative duties; Jamie was often on the ground, personally meeting clients, listening to their stories, and ensuring they received proper care and resources. Many described her as a presence of calm and kindness, someone who could lift spirits even in the most challenging circumstances.
Under her guidance, Helping Hands of the Cape Fear grew significantly, expanding its programs to provide not only medical assistance but also emotional support, counseling, and pathways to sustainable living. Jamie’s vision emphasized dignity, respect, and the belief that every person deserves compassion, regardless of their circumstances.
Friends, colleagues, and community members recall Jamie’s energy, positivity, and relentless commitment to service. She inspired those around her to give back, creating a culture of empathy and volunteerism that strengthened the bonds of the Wilmington community. Her mentorship encouraged others to pursue meaningful work in social services and nonprofit leadership.
The impact of her loss is felt deeply across Wilmington. Residents, volunteers, and local leaders have expressed profound sadness, highlighting not only her professional contributions but also her warmth, integrity, and the personal connections she fostered throughout her life. Jamie’s ability to make each individual feel seen and valued is remembered fondly by many.
In addition to her professional achievements, Jamie was known for her advocacy work, raising awareness about the challenges faced by unsheltered individuals and pushing for systemic change. Her voice amplified those who were often overlooked, bringing attention to critical social issues and inspiring collective action from both public and private sectors.
Her passing is a stark reminder of the fragility of life, and the Wilmington community has begun to reflect on the enduring legacy she leaves behind. Many are calling for continued support of Helping Hands of the Cape Fear, ensuring that Jamie’s vision of care, dignity, and hope carries on beyond her lifetime.
Memorial gatherings and tributes are being planned to honor Jamie Stokley’s remarkable life and contributions. Family, friends, colleagues, and community members are invited to celebrate her impact, share memories, and express gratitude for the difference she made in countless lives.
Though the community grieves, Jamie’s spirit and mission will continue to inspire and guide Wilmington. Her dedication to service, her empathy for those in need, and her unwavering belief in human dignity leave a lasting imprint that will continue to shape the city and the organization she built for years to come.